Good Friday is the day many concentrate on the suffering of Jesus. However, we rarely stop and think for very long about those who caused His suffering.
When we do think about it, we may think, “How could they have done those cruel things to Jesus?“
Jesus answered in His prayer from the cross. They did not know what they were doing.
Did they really not know they were torturing and killing Him? Yes, they knew that on a surface level, but they did not know the deeper implications of what they were doing.
We may think, “How could people in this world today be so cruel to do things they do?” Same answer. They do not know what they are doing.
Jesus pointed out people could do very unmerciful things because their “not knowing” went even deeper.
Jesus said,
“In fact, the time is coming when anyone who kills you will think they are offering a service to God. They will do such things because they have not known The Father or Me.”
John 16:2-3
Is it possible we ourselves do not know the wounds we cause through our words and our actions?
Do we know when we hurt others, we are hurting one who has Jesus inside them?
Jesus said,
“If you have done it to the least of these, you have done it unto Me.”
Matthew 25:40
Would you cause Jesus to suffer?
Most of us would say no!
But then we have to consider a few important things Jesus taught us.
Jesus said,
“I am in My Father and you are in Me and I in you. Whoever has My Commandments and observes them is the one who loves Me.”
John 14:20-21
Jesus said,
“If you love Me, keep My Commands.”
John 14:15
Jesus said,
“A new Command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
John 13:34
Jesus said,
“I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
Matthew 5:34
We did not physically nail Jesus to the cross, but what suffering have we brought to this world? How many times have we hurt people, sometimes not knowing … sadly, sometimes not caring …
and never processing we were doing it unto Jesus Himself.
Acts of violence, even those we call “justifiable,” carried out in the name of discipline, war, etc.
Lying. Shunning. Denying. Betraying. Gossiping. Accusing. Judging. Condemning. Not Forgiving. Even evil thoughts that never made it to actions.
All were done against Jesus Himself.
Why love one another? We are not just loving the person. We are loving Jesus Who is inside them, even if they do not know it.
Why love our enemies? It is Jesus inside them, even if they do not know it.
Why love at all? Because if we profess to love Jesus, we follow His Commands.
Hear Jesus’ Words again.
“If you have done it to the least of these, you have done it unto Me.”
Matthew 25:40
Today, as you reflect on the cross, think of all those you may have hurt in your life or are hurting right now.
Ask God to forgive you.
Ask God to take away any pain you may have caused, even when you did not know what you were doing.
Commit yourself to changing hurt to love from this moment on.
And perhaps that journey will start by your being at the foot of the cross and asking Jesus’ forgiveness for ever causing Him pain through your actions against others.
You can do that. The cross is actually God’s Throne of Grace and Mercy.
Paul said,
Let us therefore come boldly to The Throne of Grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Hebrews 4:16
You will hear Jesus say, “I forgive you. You did not know. Now you do. Go forth and love. You will find Me everywhere!”










