Jesus said, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.”
Matthew 7:1
As I have gotten older, my tolerance has expanded. I still believe some things are right and some things are wrong. But I am more open to trying to understand why people believe or behave as they do.
I am interested in seeing what beliefs are beneath the behavior they are expressing out front.
Many people do what they do because they want to be seen … noticed … simply matter … be remembered.
Besides looking at victims of violence, I also look at perpetrators of violence and try to understand how they came to be perpetrators.
I look at the sins of other people and sadly feel a kinship with them. I may not have acted on my feelings yet, but I often was tempted in the same way.
Sometimes I realize I have sinned in the same way. I am not so quick to condemn.
I understand.
I have discovered I was wrong about some things I once passionately believed. Therefore, I have more patience with people who may be wrong about what they believe.
I know I was never converted by people telling me how wrong I was. I changed when they listened to me and prayed God would show me what He wanted me to see.
So in doing a self assessment recently, I felt good that I had become so non-judgemental.
Then God tapped me on the shoulder and showed me who I was still judging.
I have been amazed at some of the rhetoric that has come from Christians in recent days.
Instead of being the flavoring salt Jesus intended us to be, some have become salt to rub in wounds.
Instead of being The Light Jesus intended us to be, many have used what light they have to accuse or condemn others.
There has not been much love expressed for friends or enemies. Many have been pronouncing judgements left and right.
God said, “So, Carolyn, are you judging those who are judging?”
Gulp.
Yes, I am still working that one out with Him. How do we deal with this issue of knowing what’s right and wrong without getting into judgement?
We can bring any situation to God. He will even let us express our opinion to Him in His Private chambers.
But He will remind us we are not the judge. He is.
The decision of how to resolve any matter is completely God’s Call. He already has The Plan and He will carry it out in His Time and in His Way.
If we are a part of that Plan, He will tell us what to do. But in the meantime, we have to leave the judging up to Him.
And yes, that includes judging those who judge.
Let all creation rejoice before The Lord, for He comes, He comes to judge the earth. He will judge the world in righteousness and the peoples in His Faithfulness.
Psalms 96:13










