Having a loving earthly father made it easier for me to understand my Heavenly Father’s Love.
Daddy was interested in everything I did. He watched. He asked questions. He actually saw me! I was not a distraction or an irritation. He made me feel important.
When I was victorious, he shared in the joy. When I failed, he helped me get back up. He did not criticize. He simply showed me a better way and assured me I would get it right the next time.
He wanted to be with me. Even when he could have done tasks much faster and easier without my little girl help, he found ways to include me.
Daddy showed affection in a healthy way. He held my hand. He hugged. He kissed me on the cheek.
He told me he loved me. He did the same with others he loved. He said it plainly. He said, “I love you with all my heart.” I knew it was true.
Daddy was fun. He was a prankster. But all his pranks were good, clean fun, designed for laughs for everyone, even the one being pranked. April Fools Day was a treasured holiday for him. He planned for it all year. And the rest of us had to be on guard all day!
Daddy was kind and compassionate. He loved to share with people. Whether it was harvest from the garden, or a good joke, he gave all of what he had.
He had a deep respect for all people and he instilled that in us. Everyone was welcome in our home.
In spite of the numerous ways I tried his patience, he never ever hit me. He raised his voice. He redirected. He taught. But he never gave up on me.
He knew there was evil in the world. He did not dwell on it, but he did warn me about the things he did know to avoid. He protected me as long as he could.
Daddy connected me to my ancestors. He told me stories that made the grandparents I never knew come alive. Daddy was honored to be a part of the family line and he wanted me to always remember I too was a part of a larger family.
Daddy used examples of things I could see to show me things I could not see. When I could not get the hang of riding a bike, my father sat on the bathroom floor with me and rolled a quarter across the floor.
He demonstrated how as long as it kept moving it stayed up. He told me that would work not only for my bike, it would work for me too. He smiled and said the key to life was never to give up and keep moving. He was right!
Daddy prayed for me in a way that I felt transported with him to Heaven. Not only did I feel God’s Presence, I felt The Presence of that great cloud of witnesses Paul talks about. Our ancestors joined us there too.
Physical parting was hard. Even though Daddy got to stay on earth for 96 years, I was not ready to let him go. He was ready. He anticipated a great family reunion and he assured me that when my work on earth was done, they would all welcome me in heaven.
One of the last things he said to me was, “I love you with all my heart. Don’t forget me.”
Not a chance of that, Daddy. I see you sometimes when I look in the mirror. I see you in my brother.
I hear you as I repeat your stories and jokes.
I feel you very near when I need someone to pray for me.
It turns out you didn’t need wings. Somehow you became a part of me and you are with me always.
You were so humble you might have been embarrassed to know I spent a week writing about you. But if it brought joy, smiles and love to others, I know you would be pleased.
I’ll love you, forever, Daddy … with all my heart!













