When we were only middle aged, Jay and I started considering “aging in place” accommodations each time we did a remodel.
We added comfort height commodes, taller more accessible counter tops, grab bars or rails at strategic places inside and out.
We replaced the deep whirlpool tub with a large walk in shower — a shower so large it can accommodate two people and extra devices if needed. We also had a bench built into it.
We added a whole house generator so we would not freeze, melt or starve if the power went out.
We replaced almost all the windows with easy open Pella casement windows. We gained more viewing and no longer had to be weight lifters to put up traditional windows.
When temporary mobility issues came along, we purchased a stair lift so we would be able to continue to easily access our second floor.
Even after I was able to go up and down steps without assistance, the chair lift was so much fun I have continued to use it. Our grandson thinks of it as an amusement park ride!
What began as luxuries some years ago have now stood us well in aging. We have a housekeeper, who comes every two weeks.
We still enjoy having a yard. We have a lawn care team, who takes care of most of the yard. But Jay still does the yard work he enjoys.
When I had neck surgery last summer, we definitely saw the benefits of home care versus hospital care for two months.
Trust me. Living in my own carefully prepared home with caregivers attuned to my own schedule, environment and creature comforts was a definite plus.
Neck surgery brought new challenges. Reach sticks became my friend for grabbing things off the floor or reaching things on high shelves.
Still there was one challenge left. I love light. We have added more and more windows and glass doors to this dream house since we built in 1994. We now have 33 windows/glass doors.
We have had blinds and I put most of them completely up every day … and put them down every night. No problem until I had eight weeks of a heavy neck brace followed by a long recovery and a stiff neck.
However, we believe every problem has a solution. And so today we went further into the modern world and had Hunter Douglas motorized shades installed on the first floor. If they work as we hope they will, we will move on to the rest of the house.
We can raise each one or all at once with a remote or our phone. We can open and or close them part way or all the way. We can set them to raise and lower at specific times. We can even raise or lower them remotely when we are not home.
Our parents lived independently into their 90s. They were able to do that through the Mercy of God and their staying creative and adaptable. We hope to follow their example into a ripe old age filled with joy and new adventures!
But when we are ready to move on, someone will have an opportunity for a well thought out age in place home!
And we would add one more thing about our day today. It may sound like a commercial, but actually it is a token of great appreciation.
Rely Technology was wonderful to work with, start to finish. Chris dreamed with us, problem solved with us, and led a cohesive team.
They also assured we mature adults could operate confidently our new techno toys! I am hoping we don’t wear them out playing with them in the first week!😘












